一句话
is she losing interest
If you're asking, you already noticed the change. Losing interest looks like slower replies, shorter answers, and plans that keep sliding - not one flat week.
Which way does it point?
Stop scoring her texts. Ask one plain question and take the answer as given.
What do I do this week?
This week, ask once: "Are we still good?" Not why she's distant - that gets a defence. Then read the answer, not her texting speed.
Asked straight
How can I tell if she's losing interest?
The pattern, not a single message. Slower replies, plans that keep sliding, and no counter-offer when you're busy. One flat text is a day; three weeks of it is a direction.
Should I ask her if she's losing interest?
Yes, once, and ask it about the two of you rather than about her: "Are we still good?" gets an answer. "Why are you being distant?" gets a defence.
Is this fortune telling?
No. It reads a moment and points a direction. For reflection and entertainment - not a prediction of what will happen.
Do I need to believe in it?
No. You need a question, not a belief. If the direction is useful, use it; if not, leave it.
Updated 2026-11-06