一句话
should i text him or wait?
If you have to ask at this hour, wait. Not as a rule - because the version of you at 2 a.m. is not the one who should be deciding. Wanting to send it is not the same as needing to.
One direction
Hold. Draft it tonight, read it in daylight, and let morning make the call.
Put the phone in another room and write the message in your notes instead. Read it at breakfast.
Asked straight
Should I text him or wait?
If it is late and you are asking, wait. Not out of pride - because a message sent to stop the discomfort usually asks for an answer, and you will not like the waiting after it.
Will texting him push him away?
Nobody can tell you what he will do; anyone promising that is guessing. One clear message lands differently from five half-messages sent over two hours.
Updated 2026-10-20