在 · one honest question
Recommendation letters
A direction, not a prediction — read through the Chinese lens.
The direction
You do not need the whole road. You need the next hundred metres.
No account, no card. One question, one direction.
In someone's own words
“Hi! I'm an undergraduate and want to apply to an intern hip that require two recommendation letter a part of the application form. Thi i my fir t time even a king for a recommendation letter and I'm not ure who to a k. I have had ton of tutor and lecturer the e pa t year and don't think they...”
— a real post, kept anonymous
What this question usually is
- Feeling behind is usually a comparison problem, not a progress problem.
- The map you are reading was drawn for someone else's start.
- Most people are not lost. They are just reading the wrong sign.
問
“You keep asking because you think someone has your answer. They have theirs.”
One question in. One direction out.
A reflection, not medical or financial advice. If today is heavier than words, findahelpline.com lists real helplines near you.