
在 · one honest question
Need a reality check on my next move (10 years of dev/marketing experience, and multiple solo ventures)
A direction, not a prediction — read through the Chinese lens.
The direction
You do not need the whole road. You need the next hundred metres.
No account, no card. One question, one direction.
In someone's own words
“Hey guy , I need ome guidance on my next tep( ). I feel like I am in a dead end, I don't know where to go from here. I tarted learning programming on my own back in 2015. After 2 year of learning hard, I landed a fir t programming job - Ruby on Rail backend developer. After the fir t one, I tran...”
— a real post, kept anonymous
What this question usually is
- Feeling behind is usually a comparison problem, not a progress problem.
- The map you are reading was drawn for someone else's start.
- Most people are not lost. They are just reading the wrong sign.
問
“You keep asking because you think someone has your answer. They have theirs.”
One question in. One direction out.
A reflection, not medical or financial advice. If today is heavier than words, findahelpline.com lists real helplines near you.