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My(32F) bf(28M) keeps telling me I have BPD

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In someone's own words

“My boyfriend claims that I have BPD due to reactions of annoyance and anger when he won’t leave me alone after asking/stating at least 3 times that he leave me alone and stop messaging me.”

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“You keep asking because you think someone has your answer. They have theirs.”

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