在 · one honest question
My career history is an absolute mess. What do I do? Leave a few jobs off going forward?
A direction, not a prediction — read through the Chinese lens.
The direction
Write the question in one line. If you cannot, you are not deciding yet.
No account, no card. One question, one direction.
In someone's own words
“I have 6 year of experience in four companie . All of thi i in the US. 1.5 year a a SWE at Amazon. I left cau e I wanted to do PM. 2 year a a PM at a bank where I barely did anything (I put tuff on my CV but don't have a lot of " torie " to tell from thi time). I left to do a ma ter degree on a...”
— a real post, kept anonymous
What this question usually is
- It is rarely the job itself. It is the version of you the job requires.
- Most people ask this when they are already tired — which is a bad time to decide.
- The money is usually the last thing worth deciding on, not the first.
問
“You keep asking because you think someone has your answer. They have theirs.”
One question in. One direction out.
A reflection, not medical or financial advice. If today is heavier than words, findahelpline.com lists real helplines near you.