在 · one honest question
My 23M boyfriend has told me he is struggling and im not sure what to do 21F. Do I leave him?
A direction, not a prediction — read through the Chinese lens.
The direction
Name what you would want on an ordinary Tuesday, six months from now. Then ask again.
No account, no card. One question, one direction.
In someone's own words
“I’ve known my boyfriend for a bit over 2 month . He a ked me to be hi girlfriend after about 3 i h week . Some may ay it wa too fa t, however it felt right. Ye terday out of no where he called me aying that he need help and i n’t in a good place. He aid he want to break up. I wa o confu ed and...”
— a real post, kept anonymous
What this question usually is
- The question is rarely about the other person. It is about what you are willing to keep carrying.
- People ask it late at night, when the honest answer is easier to hear.
- Usually there are two doors, and both are liveable — that is why it is hard.
問
“You keep asking because you think someone has your answer. They have theirs.”
One question in. One direction out.
A reflection, not medical or financial advice. If today is heavier than words, findahelpline.com lists real helplines near you.