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Should I marry him?
Everyone around you has an opinion, and none of them has to live it. This page is not going to decide for you either. It's here to help you hear your own answer, the one you keep apologising for.
What this question usually is
- This question is rarely about him. It is usually about the word 'forever'.
- The doubt you keep apologising for is information, not betrayal.
- People ask 'should I' when they mean 'am I allowed to feel what I feel'.
What actually helps
- 1Write the answer you would give if nobody would ever find out.
- 2Ask what you would tell your best friend in exactly this situation — then notice if you're being kinder to them than to yourself.
- 3Wait until tomorrow. If the answer is still the same in the morning, that's the honest version.
You don't have to know forever. You only have to know today — and then wait for tomorrow.
One question, one answer. A reflection, not a verdict on your future.
If any part of this question is about feeling safe — not about whether to stay — that is bigger than a page like this.
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A reflection, not therapy and not medical advice. Not financial, legal or relationship advice either — we don’t decide for you, and we don’t predict.