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A direction, not a prediction — read through the Chinese lens.
The direction
Write the question in one line. If you cannot, you are not deciding yet.
No account, no card. One question, one direction.
In someone's own words
“thi ha been going on for 6 year minimum the y tem i fundamentally wrong and cruel and broken why doe n't anyone do anything do we ju t have to deal with thi forever a it get wor e and ju t complain on reddit and twitter what i there to do   ubmitted by   /u/pa telxenon [link]   [留言]”
— a real post, kept anonymous
What this question usually is
- It is rarely the job itself. It is the version of you the job requires.
- Most people ask this when they are already tired — which is a bad time to decide.
- The money is usually the last thing worth deciding on, not the first.
問
“You keep asking because you think someone has your answer. They have theirs.”
One question in. One direction out.
A reflection, not medical or financial advice. If today is heavier than words, findahelpline.com lists real helplines near you.