在 · one honest question
I (22M) am getting tired of my gf (21F) always being late or never on time for anything and idk what to do?
A direction, not a prediction — read through the Chinese lens.
The direction
You do not need the whole road. You need the next hundred metres.
No account, no card. One question, one direction.
In someone's own words
“o for context my gf and i have been having ome argument of recent becau e he i late to everything. it can be a movie date, her work, prepping food, and more. at fir t i learned to deal with it ince i am a very on time and organized per on but recently it gotten out of hand. we are alway late to...”
— a real post, kept anonymous
What this question usually is
- Feeling behind is usually a comparison problem, not a progress problem.
- The map you are reading was drawn for someone else's start.
- Most people are not lost. They are just reading the wrong sign.
問
“You keep asking because you think someone has your answer. They have theirs.”
One question in. One direction out.
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