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How do I get over the shame of being a virgin at 23 (and possibly longer ๐Ÿ’€)?

A direction, not a prediction โ€” read through the Chinese lens.

The direction

Wait until morning. If it is the same answer, it is the honest one.

Ask the King one question โ†’

No account, no card. One question, one direction.

In someone's own words

โ€œPlea e donโ€™t ju t ayโ€œdonโ€™t compare your elf to other โ€ or omething ๐Ÿ’€ The bigge t rea on I feel hame i becau e of ocial pre ure/norm , and eeing experience of tho e around my age. I feel le than other people who have had the e experience . Iโ€™m not ure why I attribute o much value to ex, or why I...โ€

โ€” a real post, kept anonymous

What this question usually is

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โ€œYou keep asking because you think someone has your answer. They have theirs.โ€

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