Is "how do I (20f) get over my feelings for my best friend (20f)" a common question?

Feeling behind is usually a comparison problem, not a progress problem.

What does it usually mean?

The map you are reading was drawn for someone else's start.

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How do I (20f) get over my feelings for my best friend (20f)

A direction, not a prediction — read through the Chinese lens.

The direction

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In someone's own words

“o we have been be t friend for awhile and he ha been dating her boyfriend for probably the ame length of time. to be clear I’m a le bian and he’ pan. So I’ve realized over the pa t year that I’m in love with her. I al o think they got wor e when her and her boyfriend were having problem and he...”

— a real post, kept anonymous

What this question usually is

Feeling behind is usually a comparison problem, not a progress problem.
The map you are reading was drawn for someone else's start.
Most people are not lost. They are just reading the wrong sign.

問

“You keep asking because you think someone has your answer. They have theirs.”

One question in. One direction out.

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