在 · one honest question
Am I the only one who can’t get a minimum wage job?
A direction, not a prediction — read through the Chinese lens.
The direction
Write the question in one line. If you cannot, you are not deciding yet.
No account, no card. One question, one direction.
In someone's own words
“Could I be doing omething wrong? I actively try to not ound overqualified. Here i what I do: A. Apply on indeed with an application tating previou po ition of relevant experience (I make them up lol) and write a nice cover letter. B. Go in per on and a k if I can talk to a manager and then I a k...”
— a real post, kept anonymous
What this question usually is
- It is rarely the job itself. It is the version of you the job requires.
- Most people ask this when they are already tired — which is a bad time to decide.
- The money is usually the last thing worth deciding on, not the first.
問
“You keep asking because you think someone has your answer. They have theirs.”
One question in. One direction out.
A reflection, not medical or financial advice. If today is heavier than words, findahelpline.com lists real helplines near you.