在 · one honest question
(19M 19M) Is there any convincing my boyfriend that I find him attractive?
A direction, not a prediction — read through the Chinese lens.
The direction
Name what you would want on an ordinary Tuesday, six months from now. Then ask again.
No account, no card. One question, one direction.
In someone's own words
“A bit of back tory, when my boyfriend and I were in a talking tage la t year, I wa in the p ych ward for uicide watch. When I wa mad at him one day for not re ponding to me in the ho pital, I texted a mutual friend aying "why do I alway go for ugly men." I did not mean thi (not an excu e, and my...”
— a real post, kept anonymous
What this question usually is
- The question is rarely about the other person. It is about what you are willing to keep carrying.
- People ask it late at night, when the honest answer is easier to hear.
- Usually there are two doors, and both are liveable — that is why it is hard.
問
“You keep asking because you think someone has your answer. They have theirs.”
One question in. One direction out.
A reflection, not medical or financial advice. If today is heavier than words, findahelpline.com lists real helplines near you.